An FLR story from a fan of mine

   My wife had prepared me to be open, not that there is a whole lot of choice as she’s open to tell anyone about it much as I would be. Except that for her it would be less humiliating thing to mention. In this case, as mentioned before, she wanted to show to her mother the power dynamic in the house hold. My MIL had already some ideas I would imagine as she’s already seen me in an apron and nothing underneath. I would be ordered to bring them drinks and not really speak. My wife would make comments about me being a good servant and that she liked me under her control. Things of that nature. My MIL would say, Well that’s good to have and tell me to pick up her glass or plate to bring back to the kitchen. So she’d give some orders already even then. She never made comments about me being naked under the apron except to sort of laugh when my wife would mention it to her. She never saw anything other than my back side. I couldn’t really get hard at this point as I’d have a device on anyway. She didn’t know about the device either as she wasn’t aware of much else.

My wife was already pushing the boundaries by doing this and I think she wanted to explore her control even more. At the same time, she likes to show her mother that she’s wearing the pants so to speak. So when I was told that my MIL was going to come over tonight I was excited and nervous as to her reaction if she’d exert her power more so and what she’d be telling her.

Anyhow, my MIL had come over and it initially started as much other days. I was dressed in regular clothes at this point. Other times I’d already be in an apron and greet her that way so nothing new here. I brought her over to the living room as per usual where my wife was already waiting with a drink in hand. As my mother in law was seated I was told to wait there; her pointing in front of them. Already it was taking a slightly more authoritative tone than before. Then she told me that she wants me to change into only an apron and to bring out a drink for her mom. Off I went to change (in another room) and came out and asked her what she’d like to have. My wife had started to explain to her a bit more details of the situation at this point. She was telling her that in general she doesn’t allow her servant to wear any regular clothes in the house and sometimes I’m told to have nothing on at all. Then they were both looking at me as she paused at this. My MIL didn’t make any comments other than, oh yes and what she wanted for drinks. She told her that I am in training to be a good servant to her or to anyone else in the house. My MIL’s comment was that this is what husbands were for and that my wife should relax some times and let me take care of things. Not for her to do all the work. My wife agreed and started to list out the many tasks that I do for her. At this point she told me to kneel to the side and await for any further instructions. This is more of a thing we’ve done just the two of us so obviously she’s opening up to a more personal experience. She explained that as part of the training I would wait on her like a puppy dog as I was. Basically she’s letting her know that she’s the one with the power in the house and that i’m controlled in all aspects of regular like. That I myself like it that way. She asked me if I believe that women should be in control and I answer yes of course. She asked her mom what she thought about that and she agreed.

Part 2. Continues..

  At this point it seems my wife started to take some more leaps in the conversation. She asked her mom, Usually at home I generally don't let him wear any clothes and I'm thinking of changing that to even when there are certain guests. Would it bother you if he had nothing on? I'd like to see how he handles that. 

 MIL: Does he have to agree to anything you say? 

Wife: Ask him. 

MIL looks at me at this question. I tell her that I generally do, and that she's there to teach me to behave. I'm usually okay with that even if it's something I don't really like. 

MIL: That's good then. You aren't going to get a lot of men to just listen to what they are told.

My wife then looks at me and says, Well why don't you take off that apron then. You'll serve us nude from now on. 

She looks at her mother to see if she's going to object or say anything but she just sat there silent. She looked at me for a moment and back to her daughter before looking back at me. I looked at them both expectantly hoping that she's say 'just kidding' or something to that nature. It seems like a long pause at this point but everyone is waiting for me to go through with it. The idea of submitting to multiple women has always seemed charged but with my mother in law right in front it started to feel weird. 

My wife tells me to go ahead and take it off. So I start to untie the string in the back and let it fall to the side. I loop the collar over my head holding the apron in front of me for a second while I place my hands to cover myself. Then I let the apron drop. Now I'm standing right in front of both my wife and my mother in law completely nude. I have my hands covering my front and wait to see what they say at this point. My wife is smiling now and looks at her mother for a brief moment to gauge her reaction. She still doesn't say anything. Just leans back and looks me up and down assessing me. My wife: Don't be shy, you don't need to cover yourself. We are all family here and you need to learn to getting used to serving us this way. 

So I let me hands drop to my side. I'm getting kinda nervous at this point. I'm not wearing a cage or anything at all. For the first time I'm subservient to my wife but also to her mother. I feel completely exposed while standing there with them just sitting in front of me. 

My Wife: There now. This is how you'll be for us. Mom, do you want another drink? 

MIL: I'll need one now! 

My wife: Go and bring that bottle of wine for us and refill our glass. 

So I went to the kitchen and paused for a bit to take in the shock of what just happened. I can hear some giggling from the other room but not sure what she had said. I come back out and fill each of their glasses. 

My wife: go kneel down dear and don't try to hide anything with your legs closed. 

She says this pointing to the front of them just off to the side. I naturally go slightly closer to my wife to try to be somewhat out of the view. 

My wife: There you go. He's proven to listen to anything I say. 

MIL: Indeed. 

My mother in law then looks at me up and down some more and starts to talk to me directly. 

MIL asks incredulously: So you listen to anything she asks?   

ME: Yes I do. 

MIL: Don't you feel embarrassed like this being naked like that? 

ME: Yes of course but I'm just doing as I'm told even if it means that I don't like it. 

MIL: So you don't like this? 

I don't know what to say so I just shrug. The truth is that I kinda like it of course and kinda don't. Being controlled is one aspect but another is being humiliated as I am now. 

MIL: Are you aroused by this? 

I think to myself that feel more humiliated with the questioning. Especially since I cannot hide the fact that I was. So again I simply shrug before my wife chimes in. 

My wife: You'll have to answer her with words and not just shrug like that. 

ME: Um, yes I guess so. 

They both look down at me and start to laugh a little as I was starting to grow more. I started to try to cover myself but again my wife chimed in. 

Wife: Oh no no no. You keep you hands to your side. You see, I control every aspect of his anatomy. It's in this way that he's able to serve so well. The more he stays aroused the more he'll be compliant. He likes it that way. I even control when and where he has an orgasm, and even how. 

MIL: Really? She says this while looking at me and seems to start enjoying this. She started to what seemed like more of an air of superiority, or I may be just imagining it. 

Since they kept talking about me and how I'm controlled I start to get more turned on. At this point I'm quite hard and they can both see that since I cannot hide it in any way. 

Wife: Stand up and come over here. 

She starts to feel my balls with her thumb and forefinger, and pinches my penis opening and closing her fingers repeatedly testing for hardness. She turns to her mother and tells her to check out how full his balls are and how hard he is. Go ahead and test it. I have him on a strict diet of infrequent orgasms. 

My MIL actually reaches out! She's now doing the same thing with her thumb and forefinger. I can't believe she actually does it. I'm standing here now with one of my testicles being manipulated between two fingers of my mother in law like she's testing for some fruit. 

MIL: Oh yeah, I see. 

She says this and laughs a little. My looks at me smiling. She seems happy with this control over me, and that her mother has taken to it. 

Wife: He hasn't actually had any orgasm for almost a month. Isn't that right hunny? 

Me: Yes, it's almost a month. 

MIL: Wow, seems like a long time. Are you able to control yourself? 

This seems embarrassing being asked all these questions by my mother in law. 

Me: I can and do. I don't mind and kinda like that she controls this aspect for me. 

Wife: Sometimes I put him in a cage to make sure he doesn't play with himself without supervision. He's not allowed to orgasm unless I say so.

MIL: Cage? 

Wife: Go get the cage and show her what it looks like. 

So I go off to the bedroom and get the cage that I something have and bring it out to them. I hand it over to my wife but she doesn't take it. She tells me to explain to her how it works. 

I go through the motions of explaining each part and it's purpose while my mother in law simply nods and makes that De Niro face with the downturned mouth while nodding that she understands. 

Wife: I usually have him put it on right after orgasm and lock it up. Usually the first couple of weeks he wants it again and has a harder time to control himself. Other times I don't have it on when I'm around and like to see it hard as he's serving me. It's like a dog wagging his tail. I know that he's happy this way when I can see it. 

MIL: It's been almost a month is it time soon? 

Wife: yeah just about. Do you want to see? Actually. I'll let you decide whether he has one or not. He can have one tonight since he's been good about going through with this or he has to wait another week for his deadline. 

Oh jeez. I don't know what to think about doing that in front of her. It's one thing to be walking around naked but then to cum in front of her now too. 

MIL: No, that's fine. Perhaps another time. (She looks up at me) I guess you'll have to wait a little longer there dear. 

She says laughing at little at me. I really think she's enjoying it. I guess like her daughter she likes this idea of power. 

I'm kind of relieved that I don't have to but at the same time would have liked to as I've waited a few weeks already. 

I'm still being grilled with questions from my MIL. She seems curious about it but at the same time I feel like she's asking because is liking making me feel embarrassed. 

MIL: So what does he do when he's allowed. Just goes off to a corner and does it or what? 

My wife: No, when he's allowed I have to be there to supervise. That's part of the program. Some times I let him do it manually as in with his hands himself. Sometimes I do it myself. But always he has to clean it up by eating it. 

At this point she quickly looks at her mother to see her reaction to the cleaning part.

MIL: He has to clean up his mess by eating it? (She make a face and looks at me). 

Now directing the question to me she asks, Do you enjoy eating it or something? 

Me: No I don't really like it at all. 

MIL: But you do it anyway because that's what you are told. Incredible. 

Wife: Sometimes I make him hump my leg to get off. Always I have a timer set so that he has to orgasm before that time otherwise he loses his chance. 

This is true. She likes to put on a timer and make it certain that I fall within a time frame. It's her way of exerting control even when i'm getting something I want like an orgasm. All the questioning and humiliation actually makes me lose my hardness. My MIL eventually notices this and makes a comment about me not enjoying the questioning anymore? 

My Wife: Go ahead and bring it back up again. He needs to stay hard during the whole time. 

Ugh, so I start to manually make myself get hard again in front of them. My MIL just turns away not looking at me any longer and chats with my wife about other things. All this time and she doesn't even look. I don't know if that's better or worse because now I feel like it's irrelevant. 

 I finally let them know that i'm hard again and they both look at it and make a slight nod but continue talking. Most of the questions are asked by this point and the rest of the evening is fairly straight forward with my picking up the glasses and plates otherwise waiting to the side like a waiter with occasionally my wife nodding at me to get it hard again. One of the times my MIL actually did it. lol. She's gotten used to it. 

 In the end as my MIL is to leave I have to get her coat for her and walk them to the door. She thanks my wife for an interesting evening but doesn't say anything to me except bye. Still feel embarrassed. 

My wife tells me that she really liked that and that next time she'd like me to massage her feet, and maybe I would have to do her mother's too. She laughs. 

How he cleans the bathroom in our FLR

 Bathroom cleaning day for him is generally done on Saturdays which is today.

I look at our marriage as a normal plus heavy Femdom and FLR mixed together. We started in to femdom in the beginning requested by him. It was about the standard request for me to be more dominant In the bedroom. Sort of force him to go down on me, clean up his cum, peg him, worship my feet, and wanted me to give him golden showers. In general this is about what he decided he wanted. All porn femdom scenes in my opinion. This was 12 years ago. This is a quick summary to help you understand. It took me a few months to buy in to it and started thinking about how could I really benefit from his seemingly new sexual direction. 

I decided to play the game but added he must do things for me to get the opportunity to be come my submissive husband after 20 years of vanilla, after some time we were able to agree and started the beginning of the rest of our life. A large part of that resulted in him doing all or most of the domestic duties in our home. This is sort of the FLR part of our marriage. All of the information above relates to why he is doing our bathrooms every Saturday.

To train him to do these chores I always used some kind of quid pro quo demand so his sex drive could be in a way used against him.

I start by having him put on a pair of panties. He just comes out now with them on. He knows the drill. If not I remind him. I have him bring out a buttplug and lube. I will usually play with him getting him hard then with a very small amount of lube inset his buttplug in him. Not much lube so it does not slip out. Then back on with the panties and tell him to go clean the 3 bathrooms. He first goes to the laundry room and gets the cleaning supplies he has loaded in a tote for the task. Shower cleaners, window cleaners, Clorox, Lysol, toilet bowel cleaner, etc.

He does a very detailed job, all by hand including the floors, glass doors, and mirrors. He comes out to me after completing one for me to come inspect it. Also replaces all the towels Which he washes later when he does the laundry

He always has a hard on. A visual that he is enjoying himself. 

I get spotless and good smelling bathrooms 

Maybe a lesson to the wife’s that have been approached by her husband about Femdom. You can use his kinks and sex desires to take care of all your needs, not just sexual..

After he is done I will usually do a little ball busting to him as his reward..No Orgasm.

The Woman who helped me become my husband’s Dom

 Their has been some interest in who are the Women I talk about in some of my posts.

For some of you this information may be a repeat in general but I think it is important to talk about them in more detail. These Women helped me develop my FLR style that is different then porn FLR or Femdom.

One thing that is completely different is I do not dress in Dominatrix porn clothing. I don’t wear rubber outfits, I do not have a whip or crop, no nylons, etc. Just my normal clothing.

Back to the Girls.

We all grew up together in this town of around 45,000 people now. It is a farming community, a  bedroom community for commuters, all around good place to live. I would call it country living not city living. We are approximately 100 miles from any large city.

Their are four Girlfriends and my Sister, we were all born in the late 1950’s. It is rare to have more that a few old friends for most, I have four as I have said. Most of us met in grade school and two in junior high school. We stayed here where many Women moved out and on after high school or college.

Back when we were in high school our goals were to find a man, get married, and have children. That was normal then, a far cry from today’s desires for girls in high school. 

I feel many of you are 30 years or more younger than we are, maybe its hard for you to comprehend the things we do or why I would seek their help. 

I feel we do what we do because of how we have been changed and  programmed as young Women. Different generations have different programming.

We have all been or are currently married at this time, all have children and grand children. 

Most all went to college except one, each earned a bachelor degree at minimum.

The one that did not go to college went to junior college and obtained a Associate’s degree. She however stayed home and worked on raising 3 children and runs the Ranch with her husband. 

The others like me went on to work professional careers and have since retired with pensions with the exception of my Sister who still works. She did not consider her future most of Her life like the rest of us did.

Yes the good old days, pensions and investments with a home, a husband and children. It was doable in those days.. We were old school and partly influenced by the Woman’s liberation movement. The difference in our generation I feel is we thought we could be both, a wife first then career secondary. 

These situations I talk about are only my views, many now will not think the same way. Especially if you are a modern Woman.  

Currently two are still married, two are divorced and one a widow..

I talk about the pee parties and other get togethers here at my home on my blog, however, we get together many other times during the year. We have lunch a lot in town. The party’s and get togethers where ever held may be a few of us or all of us. It is actually difficult to have the five and myself all attending an event due to other commitments like any other group of friends has.

These are the Women who helped me thru the beginning stages of my FLR relationship. We built it together. Without them this blog would not be here today, I would not be living my life like a true queen.

When we got to our discussions around my husbands desires to be peed on, as he called it golden showers, one of the Woman was really into it.

She is one of the divorced ones and in general seems to hate men a bit. She is the one that  directed the discussions and helped us plan to make him drink my pee, not just squirt on him. FYI, The first several times I did it to him were peeing on him, then in his face, then in his open mouth to drinking it all.

To be continued.

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Femdom Wife blog startup

 I am going to attempt another blog about my Femdom and FLR marriage. 

We have been full time for over 12 years. 

Our relationship includes him orally serving me often, his orgasm control and restraint, drinking my pee, ball busting, foot worship, and dildo’s. Inside him and him using them inside me instead of himself. 

Also he does cooking and cleaning, ironing, shopping, and supplies our financial needs. 

If you are interested please leave a comment. If enough folks want to read more I will add our story.